Harry and Francis married 34 years ago. Harry's 1st wife died and then he met and married Francis. They have been the sweetest most amazing couple. Their lives are so interesting and their faith is strong in the Lord. Harry died Tuesday evening... He's been in poor health for quite some time. He suffered from dementia and was put into a nursing home before Christmas because of his failing health.
I have had the opportunity to give Francis a ride occasionally to the Dr. or the store or to church and I always love hearing the update on Harry. A week ago Francis told that Harry was put on Hospice care. I told her I was sorry to hear that. She was actually relieved and happy he was on hospice... as he was receiving MORE help and it would surely ease his pain and burdens and help him as he "moves on". WOW-- such faith and such peace sweet Francis shows! I met with her today and she shared these intimate details--As Harry was near the end in a coma like state, she leaned in close and whispered to him that it was ok for him to go-- that she would be fine. She told him that his first wife would be there to greet him.
I just can't help but tear up thinking of this-- She had no jealousy or pride- just love and peace. I guess I tear up also as I think of my own mother having already passed through the veil and is awaiting my father. I feel such gratitude that my dad has found my stepmother- they have helped each other along through much grief and loss. My dad and his wife are living the twilight of their years together- they have been married since the summer of 1995 and could be together for longer than the 25 years my parents were together. My heart is full today as I pray for Francis and her family and ponder the blessings of life and death. It didn't help my emotions today as I left Francis this morning, the amazing song "I Can Only Imagine" sung by Josh Groban came on the radio. I love that song- so- funeral tomorrow afternoon!
"I can only imagine what it will be like, when I walk by Your side...
I can only imagine, what my eyes will see, when Your Face is before me!
I can only imagine. I can only imagine.
Surrounded by Your Glory, what will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you, Jesus? Or in awe of You, be still?
Will I stand in Your presence, or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing 'Hallelujah!'? Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine! I can only imagine!
I can only imagine, when that day comes, when I find myself standing in the Son!
I can only imagine, when all I will do, is forever, forever worship You!
I can only imagine! I can only imagine!
Surrounded by Your Glory, what will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you, Jesus? Or in awe of You, be still?
Will I stand in Your presence, or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing 'Hallelujah!'? Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine! Yeah! I can only imagine!
Surrounded by Your Glory, what will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you, Jesus? Or in awe of You, be still?
Will I stand in Your presence, or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing 'Hallelujah!'? Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine! Yeah! I can only imagine!
I can only imagine! Yeah! I can only imagine!! Only imagine!!!
I can only imagine.
I can only imagine, when all I do is forever, forever worship You!
I can only imagine."